
How can I not give, when I was given life twice? Receiving the kidney from my mother gave me vitality, strength I did not have before — and brought back abilities I never thought I'd have access to again.
Raquel Givens Jones
Kidney Recipient · Blogger & Life Coach
Raquel Givens Jones knows what it feels like to disappear. Diagnosed with lupus in 2005, she lived for years with kidney issues that, against the odds, held steady — until a single hospital stay changed everything. A recommended biopsy turned into an untreated infection, and within two weeks her kidney function was gone. Dialysis three times a week followed, and with it a grief she had not been prepared for: anger at her body, disappointment in herself for ignoring her inner voice, and a depression that made her feel like she was fading into a fog.
In October 2015, her mother gave her a kidney. Raquel says she knew the moment she woke up that she was new. "I knew that my life had been shined on, and I was going to be able to take my life experiences to the highest potentials." The vitality she had lost came rushing back, and with it, abilities she never thought she would access again.
She had resisted transplant for a long time. A lifelong believer in natural healing with a long list of medication allergies, she did not want to be bound to a regimen of drugs. What changed was her understanding of purpose. "Everything that happened to me, happened for me, and my highest good," she says. Along the way she has met people who would, in her words, "give gold for a kidney" — friends walking the same road of lupus and kidney failure she once walked. She prays for them. She wishes she had a kidney to give.
Today, as a blogger and life coach, Raquel uses her platform to remind recipients that the healing journey does not end on transplant day — if anything, it becomes more imperative to stay in alignment with health, with love, and with one's own inner voice. She wants people to see a soul filled with peace when they see her, and to know that organ donation is one of the most powerful invitations a human being can extend to another.
"How can I not give," she asks, "when I was given life twice?"




